Bad Girl Wins
Yes ladies, we know you are oh-so-in-love with that gorgeous man that you had been dating. You can't stop thinking about him, and all you want to do is to talk about him and talk to him. The minute you are not with him, you want to be with him.
We know, we know. We all experienced that before, after all.
However, although it might be okay to tell your girlfriends about how crazily in love you are (the most they will do when they are annoyed or bored is to roll their eyes and do something and pretend to be listening to you.), it is a definite no-no to show your craziness to your man.
If you let him know how crazily in love you are, you are actually telling him that you are a needy girl who feels insecure. This will gives him immense satisfaction knowing how charming and attractive he is. Now, you may argue: what's wrong with boosting his confidence?
Do you realize that onc
e he knows how needy you are, he will find you less attractive? This is one of the many quirks about men: they like women who are play hard-to-get. They are born to compete, you see, which is why they never understand what's so interesting about the games us ladies play, where no one appear to be the winner at the end of the game. Speed and competition excites them. If you appear to be too ready for him all the time, it gives him the impression that he had already won the game and he need not do anything else. He will lose interest in you. Which is why bitches always win in the game of love, leaving the good girls to weep at the corner of the room!
So girls, remember: when he calls you for a date, don't be too ready to say yes. Pause for a moment, tell him that you will get back to him later for confirmation. You can skip around in joy after you ended the phone conversation, and call him back (or make him call you back!) to tell him, yes, you can make it for the date.
We know, we know. We all experienced that before, after all.
However, although it might be okay to tell your girlfriends about how crazily in love you are (the most they will do when they are annoyed or bored is to roll their eyes and do something and pretend to be listening to you.), it is a definite no-no to show your craziness to your man.
If you let him know how crazily in love you are, you are actually telling him that you are a needy girl who feels insecure. This will gives him immense satisfaction knowing how charming and attractive he is. Now, you may argue: what's wrong with boosting his confidence?
Do you realize that onc
So girls, remember: when he calls you for a date, don't be too ready to say yes. Pause for a moment, tell him that you will get back to him later for confirmation. You can skip around in joy after you ended the phone conversation, and call him back (or make him call you back!) to tell him, yes, you can make it for the date.
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