So you're dating and getting to know lots of people with the hope of finding the ˇ°right one. You're looking for that particular someone whom you'll make a great romantic connection with just a simple ˇ° hi and hello. But have you ever felt like it's actually going nowhere, and luck just seems to be out of your reach? It's time to stop the self-pity, and face the fact that luck has got nothing to do with dating.

If you're like most people, you've probably been dating with a blindfold, and not even realizing it. If you think your dating patterns have been dissatisfying and unsuccessful, then maybe it's time to take a step back and examine what went wrong. You'll be surprised to know that you've been so caught up in the whole idea of dating, that you've actually missed out on some important points of dating. Here are some helpful dating tips to for better and pleasant dates:

What to wear
A first impression that leaves a big impact on a date starts from the second you see each other. Even before words are exchanged, your date has already made judgment basing on what she/he sees. That's why appearance, clothing, and cleanliness are very important on dates.

Make a misstep on these three things, and whatever positive things you make during the remaining time of the date are negated. It's better to make sure that you've showered and appropriately dressed, rather than hurrying up and neglecting these things just to be on time. If need be, make call your date and delay, but always look nice for the date.

Eye Contact
It is very important to have eye contact when dating, and it's a vital flirting tip. During a date, there are lots of emotions that are expressed through the eyes, particularly those that deal with ˇ°interest. Very little eye contact leads to one's date thinking they're not interested, while too much of it will seem creepy, making your date feel very uncomfortable.

Maintain eye contact in a date to show interest. When you're looking at your date, look at the face at all times, not unless you're commenting on something specific like jewelry or clothing. Keep in mind to gently gaze at the date, and don't stare as it can be too intense and make your partner uncomfortable.

Be yourself
Good relationships always start with being yourself. Among the most common ˇ°red flags in dating is thinking that you've played an act or role of someone or something you're not. Remember that dating can be the start of romantic relationship, and it will never end well if from the start you've already masked yourself with a different person. Be yourself, it'll save the both of you lots of pain down the road.

Who pays the bill
Who will actually pay for the date? It is not as clear these days as it once used to be. An increasing number of dates, and even people who have been dating for years, split the bill when the date is done. However, on first dates, whoever has asked for the date should shoulder the bill. If the both of you decide to see each other again, alternating on payment for subsequent dates is fair. Importantly, try to select activities that are within your budgets.

Dating basics
It is good to remember that dating involves two people that can turn out to be opposites. To have a successful date regardless of whether you're compatible or not, keep these things in mind: the person you're dating deserves ˇ°respect; it's good to be a positive and upbeat dating partner; never force on something that your partner does not want to do; plan the date; ask questions to get to know the person better; never violate your principles; and be comfortable with who you are.

Dating is the first step to finding someone wonderful and interesting. Nevertheless, let every date be a good experience, regardless of whether or not it's your 1000th date.