Just be yourself
Recently, I have read a lot of email newsletters from this so called 'love expert' and I don't think that he was right when he listed all of those things that you need to do to capture that person's heart just because you were not what that person was seeking for or that you were not behaving the way that person would want you to behave.
Of course in my perspective here, I'm talking on the behalf of the community of women because it isn't suppose to be this way. These newsletters are trying to 'teach' women on how to 'capture' their man's hearts by doing one, two and three. But well, guess what? It isn't as easy as it sounds. Women shouldn't try to reinvent themselves just so that they could comfortably fit into that space in their man's heart because in the end, you'll find that you've become nothing but an emp
ty shell just so your man will like what he sees.
The truth is, there is NO FORMULA for things like love and relationships. When things just doesn't work out...they just don't. After all, those people selling books on how to make men attracted to you, are just people who are using your desperate need to make things better with your man, to make money. That's business for ya'.
I don't know about fate and soul mates, I cannot say that I do not believe in them neither could i say that I do. But one thing i do know is that there is always, someone out there who will accept you wholly, the way you are, and what you are. This I believe.
So don't. Don't 'redo' yourself. You are who you are in your own unique way, so if someone just doesn't accept you because of insensible reasons then you can tell that person that he isn't even worth your time.
Of course in my perspective here, I'm talking on the behalf of the community of women because it isn't suppose to be this way. These newsletters are trying to 'teach' women on how to 'capture' their man's hearts by doing one, two and three. But well, guess what? It isn't as easy as it sounds. Women shouldn't try to reinvent themselves just so that they could comfortably fit into that space in their man's heart because in the end, you'll find that you've become nothing but an emp
The truth is, there is NO FORMULA for things like love and relationships. When things just doesn't work out...they just don't. After all, those people selling books on how to make men attracted to you, are just people who are using your desperate need to make things better with your man, to make money. That's business for ya'.
I don't know about fate and soul mates, I cannot say that I do not believe in them neither could i say that I do. But one thing i do know is that there is always, someone out there who will accept you wholly, the way you are, and what you are. This I believe.
So don't. Don't 'redo' yourself. You are who you are in your own unique way, so if someone just doesn't accept you because of insensible reasons then you can tell that person that he isn't even worth your time.
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