Published on 11/20/2008

Somethings couples should do to make there relationship last.

For Him and Her

For Her:Support: You have to be your partners cheerleader. No ladies this doesnt mean you must have pom poms and the mini skirt( that can be saved for later). This means that always be on your boyfriends/husbands side and acknowledge things he does well. Its nice supporting him when it\'s just the two of you but he wants to be acknowdged in front of family and friends, gives him aboost.Surprises: This can be anything. Men don\\\'t like the same thing so for an example if you dont cook, one day whip up a tasty meal,with you for dessert. When he comes home from work, have something revealing on to make him want you. Its not all about intimacy but it can be other things as well. I just find that intimacy can spice up any dull relationship. If your the type of women that doesnt like your man to have the guys over for football and beer, then one day suggest that he should have his friends over and you\'ll take cae of everything. This will make him appreciate you and surprise him. He will love you forever;-)Flirt: When you have been in a relationship for awhile you might forget how it feels to have butterflys in your stomach. Do little things that you used to do in the beginning of your relationship. Play footsys, touch him softly when you walk by him or just kiss him quickly when your watching a movie. You man will notice the little flirts, he will love it.Compliment: Men need to be told how great they are. Tell him how good he looks when hes doing something, or say that was great when he fnished something hes worked on for a while. Dont just say it to say it, you have to mean it or hes going to sense your not sincere.Play: This means write a naughty note or picture and put it in something that he will open at work. This will make his mind race and want to get home to you.For HimListen: This is very important men! All a women needs sometimes is a listening ear and not any advice. Women just want to vent and they like to know that your going to sit with them and listen to what a bad day they hadGifts: No No men I dont mean go out and buy something. Its the thought that counts! Something as small as wild picked flowers to a home made card means the world the women. Little things matterMassage: Its just what it sounds like. When she has a long day rub her back and her feet. It will make her relaxed and it might get you lucky also.Dont Be a Bum: This means if you guys go out put something on decent. I can\'t tell you how many times men just throw on anyting while the women takes pride in her appearance.Notes: Leave little notes in differant place. On a pillow when your heading for work, on her car window, on the bathroom mirror. Everyone needs to feel loved.