Marraige - The bond of a lifetime
Marraige
Sometimes ive heard the term 'Wedlock' associated with weddings and marraiges. I don't know why but for me it sounds scary. The word 'Lock" is referred to the commitment one gives to the other partner at the time of marraige. However, in reality the meaning is quite misunderstood and i have to say its innocent to do so. Some people have perceptions that marraige limits their freedom and gets them into a deadlock. Some people even go to the extent of saying that marraige destroys people's lives. That is very harsh on people who are getting ready for their wedding. This can also cloud their mind on whether they should go ahead with it, or take a step back and assess the whole thing again.
In my life ive always been on the opinion that the first thought about a person or a thing is the best. So, i don't usually turn back from what i had set out to do. Every person is different, and has different ways of thinking. My ways may not work for you, but i can assure you that its worth the read. And maybe at some point of time in your lives you might as well use it.
Marraige is the last step in a relationship involving a man and a woman who are romantically connected. Some people differ on this. People have a sense that its not a stage of a relationship but its quite the ending of it. I don't think
so. Let's look at it logically, how many of us had that special friend that we always hung out with? Almost all of us did. Didn't we ever think for a second that 'it would be so good if he/she had stayed with me in my house'?, I'd doubt that. The main aim of marraige is to help eachother through rough and smooth times. To be involved in the happiness of the other and to be sad when the other is sad, and to be worried when the other is stressed out.
In short we all know that we need that one special one with us in our lives, who we don't have to lie to, and one person who we can trust with our lives and tell them our secrets, even the dirtiest ones that we haven't shared with the best of friends fearing that we will lose their friendship. Some people might say 'I don't need anyone' these people are the ones who are in need of it the most. Some even go to the extent of not getting married and staying alone all their lives. These people, god help them need guidance. All i would say about marraige is we all are skeptical to share our lives with someone else. But this is one wonderful relationship which when understood correctly, cannot be broken come what may. And so, even if you are someone who doesn't readily accepts new people, I would say give this one try, its not necassary that it will be success but then you will live what you otherwise miss. And in my opinion if that makes any difference to you DON'T MISS IT!
Sometimes ive heard the term 'Wedlock' associated with weddings and marraiges. I don't know why but for me it sounds scary. The word 'Lock" is referred to the commitment one gives to the other partner at the time of marraige. However, in reality the meaning is quite misunderstood and i have to say its innocent to do so. Some people have perceptions that marraige limits their freedom and gets them into a deadlock. Some people even go to the extent of saying that marraige destroys people's lives. That is very harsh on people who are getting ready for their wedding. This can also cloud their mind on whether they should go ahead with it, or take a step back and assess the whole thing again.
In my life ive always been on the opinion that the first thought about a person or a thing is the best. So, i don't usually turn back from what i had set out to do. Every person is different, and has different ways of thinking. My ways may not work for you, but i can assure you that its worth the read. And maybe at some point of time in your lives you might as well use it.
Marraige is the last step in a relationship involving a man and a woman who are romantically connected. Some people differ on this. People have a sense that its not a stage of a relationship but its quite the ending of it. I don't think
In short we all know that we need that one special one with us in our lives, who we don't have to lie to, and one person who we can trust with our lives and tell them our secrets, even the dirtiest ones that we haven't shared with the best of friends fearing that we will lose their friendship. Some people might say 'I don't need anyone' these people are the ones who are in need of it the most. Some even go to the extent of not getting married and staying alone all their lives. These people, god help them need guidance. All i would say about marraige is we all are skeptical to share our lives with someone else. But this is one wonderful relationship which when understood correctly, cannot be broken come what may. And so, even if you are someone who doesn't readily accepts new people, I would say give this one try, its not necassary that it will be success but then you will live what you otherwise miss. And in my opinion if that makes any difference to you DON'T MISS IT!
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