When we find someone that we finally get along with and someone who treats us right, that is called a relationship. We enter the honeymoon stage, everything is going great faults are overlooked and mistakes forgiven without a second thought. This stage is wonderful and blissful, and you think you will be like this forever! He is romantic and thinks you are the most beautiful thing in the world and he would never think to look at another girl. She thinks he has no fault and there is no nagging to go to family events and she does everything in her mind to please him sexually and emotionally. This stage is extended when the two say i love you, weather or not they mean it. So after the first six months or so they start getting tired. Basically life happens and the relationship evolves for the worse or better. He thinks he does not need to make the effort anymore, thus she gets frustrated because women are by default hopeless romantics and then starts to expect the ridiculous of him. She starts nagging him and expecting him to go to every family event right down to the kindergarten graduation of her fourth cousin. Then of course you have to factor in the families of the two. Now that they are a serious couple parents get introduced to each other and hope for the best that one of them is not an axe murderer. When we get past that, and one of them is just a crack dealer, then you have pregnancy worries. Now some women are so bat shit crazy that they will fall in love and trick the guy into having a baby. How does she trick him you ask? By not taking her birth control or poking holes in the condom with a fork. This is where what women call 'the test' comes in. Will they stay or bale? Of course the decent and responsible ones stay and support the crazy woman and her spawn. This people is where we loose decent guys in society, to weird women who just want babies. But to back up a bit, what about the mistakes? The condom breaks, or the birth control just fails for no reason. Now we talk about the men who do not stick around.