Going on a blind date can be exciting but may also be awkward as well. Here are some tips on how you can avoid blind date disasters and maybe even go on the second date – or more.

Firstly, since this is a blind date, it is wise to meet your date in a public place. Especially for a lady, this makes her feel more safe and secure. Also, come on time. Making your date wait can be off-putting. Moreover, standing up on your date is also just as rude as well.

Keep in mind that first impressions are lasting. Wear something appropriate. Blind dates are supposed to be informal so avoid overdressing or showing up on the date as if you have not made a conscious effort to prepare for it. Show your personal style but that is not too much nor too less. Remember that what you wear can say a lot to your date. Be also particular with your grooming and hygiene as well. You would not want to spend a night away with someone who has, say, bad breath or dirty nails. 

When choosing a place, keep it casual. Go for a place where you can talk and know each other easily. Some popular options can be at a coffee shop or a cozy restaurant. If you decide to meet for drinks, be sure not to get yourself or your date drunk. This can ruin a first date right quickly.

Keep your attention on your date. It can be very off-putting if your date starts talking and your attention is on your phone, you keep greeting other people you see at your meeting place or checking out other people. Maintain eye contact with your date as well. If you are a guy, however, this does not mean that you look at your date as if you were devouring her. It can make her feel uncomfortable. Keep your eyes on your date and not anywhere else.

In a blind date, you are yet still getting to know the person so avoid making everything appear too romantic or suggestive, even if you may have already had a number of previous conversations over the phone or online. You and your date want to be comfortable and trying to appear as if you want to rush into something else can scare or tick him/her off.

Perhaps the most important aspect to making a blind date turn out well is by good conversation. Both of you should be able to find something to talk about. However, you should be careful and cautious of what you ask or open up about, otherwise, you may be mistaken for being desperate, needy or even psychotic. Avoid asking, or opening up about your financial troubles, family problems, work woes or how you were badly hurt in your previous relationship.  Beware of too much “I’s”. Some actually make the mistake of talking about themselves too much in order to impress their dates, but more often, this often works the other way. Remember that a blind date is not just all about you but it is also about knowing your date. Ask about his/her likes, interest, listen attentively and establish common ground from there.

If the date does not turn out well, thank him/her for the time. Do not keep his/her hopes up for another date nor be impolite. But if goes well, tell your date that you had a great time. You know when you will have clicked on your blind date if another date follows.

With these simple steps, you can overcome blind date jitters and awkward moments and turn it to a great one.