Today my friend gave me a topic to write about and I promised her to try. So, there are the things which I like a friend must have or must not have. Don't take me wrong or confused person. I don't see any good or bad quality in my friends. They are my friends because I like them, I never tried to look there qualities, what they have or what they don't have.


But still I have decided to think about my best friends and the qualities they have which I like the most.
1st of all would like to tell that when we take birth, we have no choice to select our mother, father, brothers, sisters and other relatives. We have to live with them with the qualities they have, whether we like them or not. But friendship is a kind of relation, on which we have the right to decide with whom we like to spend our time, With whom we like to share our secrets, with whom we can feel comfortable etc. But did u ever think before making anyone your friend? I don't think anyone thinks. 1st we just join each other and start sharing time, after some time we feel that the person we are having in our life is better then the other people and we start spending more time with him/her.


A good or best friend must be genuine in my point of view. He should say good if you are good and should say bad if you are bad. He should be a critic with you in your deeds. If you are doing anything wrong and your friend is not stopping you, it means that your friend doesn't care about you. Because we don't allow to do anything wrong if we care about anyone. If you are doing anything wrong and your friend is helping you it means that you have a wrong person and he/she will definitely harm you, whenever he/she get a chance.My friends normally criticize me when they find anything wrong in my deeds.


A good friend should be loyal with you. A friend must be loyal because loyalty is the thing which makes relations more bonded. He/ she should keep your secrets in his/her heart, so that you shouldn't feel ashamed in front of others.


He/she must be part of you in your bad times. We have so many friends but can we count how many of them come to us in our bad times? Very few. Reason most people are just part of you in your good times and in your bad times they run away because they think that you could ask anything to them. There is a well known say " a friend in need is a friend in deed". When in 2007 I had a surgery only few of my friends turned to see me or called me in the hospital. That was the time when I realized and come to know how many are my good friends. From that onwards I never expect anything to anyone.


Now I just want my friend to be little good with me. I don't expect anything from anyone and that's why I feel happy most of the time.


I just Want a friend to be just a genuine person not more than that.
Hope most of you not agree with me. Please give me your feedback so that I could be more friendly and genuine with others.

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