Who's to blame?

To hear you tell your story everyone else is to blame for your mistakes, faults and your current position in life but you, why is that?

1. When are you going to stop blaming people for life detours and distractions?

2. Isn't it about time you stop crying about spoiled milk or should I say, "How life in general has wronged you?"

3. Who is the one who chose this path your on anyway, you. Ok, somebody may have made suggestions to you about which way you should go and what you should do in certain situations. Remember it was you alone who utimately decided which road to take or not to take.

Quite frankly, I've made many mistakes along this journey called life. I've also regrettably done things I've wished I could change but once the damage is done you must live with it, learn from the outcome and move on from the past mishaps.

Who is to blame for the position you find yourself in at this moment?

Maybe if you take a moment to sum up your current state of being you'll find you aren't doing so badly. (There's always someone-somewhere dealing with a worse situation then yours.)

• Rid yourself of such guilt and false accusations, maybe you are exactly where you are suppose to be. (Take time to learn the lessons al
  ong the way.)
• So you find yourself in a situation that seems unbearable; rent is due, heating bills are up, your working a dead end job with limited skills, divorce is inevitable, your child is in jail and your prayers don't seem to get answered quick enough, what next?
• The upside is you are living, breathing, clothed in your right mind, have shelter, food to eat, health, strength, and a job to report to but it's not enough.

(It's up to you to change your situation. Are you tired of how things turn out? Then it's time to make a change start with the way you think , just a thought!)

Let's change the meaning of blame:

B- Burst into laughter when confronted with things that you can't instantly change>

(Don't let anything cause you to step out of character and lower your standards!)

L- Learn to love your mistakes and learn from them.

(You will begin to recognize blunders before they occur again.)

A-Anticipate your next move towards an unaccomplished goal.

M- Master the distractions that keep you focused on meaningless stuff.

E- Educate yourself brush up on skills you have and desire to discover.

• Stop blaming others and yourself for stuff you can't change! The things you can transform decide to do it and eventually you'll see a difference in you and others around you!!

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