Why is it that most guys complain about wearing a condom for about fifteen minutes ( or less for the majority of men, probably less than two minutes if drunk) , but do not worry about having to raise and take care of a child the rest of their lives. Even if the man chooses not to stick around when he finds out about the baby, he still knows that he has a child somewhere out there. Also the guilt of leaving their girlfriend with the burden of raising a child by themselves (or maybe I give men too much credit of having a conscious). Women also have to be strong, is sex so important at that second that if you ask him to wear a condom and he denies you, then you say its ok just because you want sex? Why would you want to have sex with a possible STI ridden sperm donor who could leave you if he found out you where pregnant just because you where too afraid of rejection? If he refuses to wear a condom then is that the guy you would want to get pregnant from or an illness or for that fact he does not care what happens to you so why are you in bed with him in the first place? Men need to be educated about the fact that they can get an STI from the women too not only men give disease. Women need to become stronger in their demands to protect themselves from the physical harm and the emotional harm. You can divorce or break up with your husband/boyfriend, but you can not divorce a child. We need to teach girls at an early age that they need to stand up for what they believe in and what they want. Do not be afraid of rejection to demand a condom! We also need to teach men that women can be tricky and say they are on the pill or have an implant, but really women are tricking them so they can have a baby! That is where the good ones get sucked in because they want to be responsible by staying and help raise the child and be involved in the child's life. There are some crazy people out in the world, so why wouldn't you want to protect yourself?

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