Hi everyone,
Like i said in my summary i believe communication is the most important part of a relationship. If you feel like you cant tell the other everything about the way u feel, or are afraid of their reaction than u need to talk about that part first. I understand how we all can over react sometimes ecspecially about the ones we love, but when you thing about why they do it than you will understand better just how to talk to him/her. I write this because I have been in a relationship for 5 years now with a lot of ups and downs but I learned that I have to talk to him. Besides when your relationship is long distance sometimes thats all you have. And trust me I learned all this the hard way so im trying to save some people some trouble. No matter what it is you have to talk!!! Not just about little things either, if he/she
does something to upset you or something you dont like tell him/her. If a co worker is checking you out at work tell him/her because that will build up the trust. I know sometimes the reaction we hope for isnt there when we first say something but after they calm down and think about it, they will be happy that u talked to him/her about it. Just dont react to their first reaction and give him/her time to really think about why you would tell him/her about it. It may not be the easiest thing but in the long run it will be the best thing for your relationship. And the love and trust will be stronger between the two of you in time to come. To bad for me I didnt have anyone to give me this advice and I had to learn the hard way, but i did learn. Im just trying to save some people from going through what I have gone through, so good luck and remember to talk to your love, its the best thing you can do
